Couldn't say this didn't all come as a big surprise. Sometimes it isn't always someone's intention for things to happen a certain way, they just do.
Another important point to expound on: why do people become so defensive and rudely attack me with words when all i'm kindly bringing up an issue leaving me feeling with embarassment that I actually took the time to bring it to their attention.
"Well according to "so and so" both of you knew that I wasn't coming anyway so why should I tell you guys if you know everything already"
Whoa? I hadn't been discussed this with? Who the hell told me that she had known this the whole time? I was apparently put into a category that I didn't even think or know I was in. I didn't know this at the time, so why the fucking hostility?
I don't even know what to say but, calm the eff down and that was completely uncalled for. And that goes for alot of people and alot of situations in my life.